hollyking: (lost cause)
hollyking ([personal profile] hollyking) wrote2008-08-18 06:56 pm

Suddenly Separated

At least I can say I tried.

[identity profile] electrcspacegrl.livejournal.com 2008-08-19 02:05 am (UTC)(link)
Wait, what? You two broke up? Did I miss something?

[identity profile] hollyking.livejournal.com 2008-08-19 02:06 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, we've been having problems and are separating.

[identity profile] electrcspacegrl.livejournal.com 2008-08-19 02:19 am (UTC)(link)
I'm really sorry to hear that. You probably don't want any advice, but even though you're separating, have you considered couples counseling?

My best wishes to both of you.
Edited 2008-08-19 02:19 (UTC)

[identity profile] dakotaluna.livejournal.com 2008-08-19 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
:-(

[identity profile] sebab.livejournal.com 2008-08-19 02:15 am (UTC)(link)
um, wha?
ext_167746: Slice of the City (Default)

[identity profile] theslice.livejournal.com 2008-08-19 02:17 am (UTC)(link)
Yeh, I'm in the "wait... what?" category as well. Granted I don't see much outside of LJ, but whoa...

[identity profile] bountifulpots.livejournal.com 2008-08-19 02:23 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, honey. I'll be on IM later if you want to talk. *hug*

[identity profile] cheesentoast.livejournal.com 2008-08-19 03:41 am (UTC)(link)
Love you so.

[identity profile] ragnorokt.livejournal.com 2008-08-19 03:43 am (UTC)(link)
All I can say is what I did on the phone, call me whenever you need, and I have crash space should you need it.

By the way I clicked on the link for your location and it is nowhere near Florin...interesting

[identity profile] cindygerb.livejournal.com 2008-08-19 04:04 am (UTC)(link)
Sending hugs

[identity profile] kaligrrrl.livejournal.com 2008-08-19 04:43 am (UTC)(link)
I'm really sorry. I wish the best for both of you.

and I second the suggestion couple's counseling can help y'all get through the seperation process as best as possible.

[identity profile] neuro42.livejournal.com 2008-08-19 04:54 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry. If there's anything I can do for you (unlikely, I know), please let me know.

[identity profile] princessgeek.livejournal.com 2008-08-19 05:12 am (UTC)(link)
:-( *hugs*

counseling

[identity profile] sea-gaagii.livejournal.com 2008-08-19 06:33 am (UTC)(link)
I third the counseling - although you guys have to understand what you want from the relationship. I can recommend an excellent poly friendly counselor.

If you want to hang and do guy stuff let me know. I'll be brewing another batch of beer soon.

[identity profile] a-rockett.livejournal.com 2008-08-19 07:03 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry!

Re: Suddenly Separated

[identity profile] wolfieboy.livejournal.com 2008-08-19 07:46 am (UTC)(link)
Good luck and support to you. I'm hoping that whatever is best for both of you works out. *Hugs*
I do have some empathy for your position.

[identity profile] imp-of-satan.livejournal.com 2008-08-19 08:27 am (UTC)(link)
NO!!! I hope you two can work things out, and if not I hope you find happiness soon.

[identity profile] christhegeek.livejournal.com 2008-08-19 11:03 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry.

I can only suiggest that there is hope. Blix and I got to a low point where divorce and separation were discussed but were able to bounce back.

I hope that this is the case for you as well.

And if this is, in fact, the end of your time together, you are both two shining stars, and are not made any less valuable to this world by your separation.

I am so sorry you have this pain.

[identity profile] pallidbat.livejournal.com 2008-08-19 12:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Wait, what? Did I miss something? *hugs* I'm always around if you need to talk (insomnia, it's a blessing!). Love you lots, honey.

[identity profile] popfiend.livejournal.com 2008-08-19 01:14 pm (UTC)(link)
So sorry man.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

*HUG*

[identity profile] qt3-14159.livejournal.com 2008-08-19 05:09 pm (UTC)(link)
??

I don't understand...but I love you both dearly. Call me if you want. I'm almost always awake...and if I'm not, that's still okay.

[identity profile] mokie-sassafras.livejournal.com 2008-08-19 06:25 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs* offered, redeemable in person if you'd like

[identity profile] loba.livejournal.com 2008-08-22 09:25 pm (UTC)(link)
***hugs***

Am very sorry... you two are like family to me.

Much love and support to you.